Sunday, November 18, 2007

Guys and Girls can't be friends? Wha?

So while surfing google on Mozilla Firefox, I typed in guys and girls when I was upset and one thing that came up was "Guys and Girls Can't be Friends" So naturally I clicked on that because most of my friends are guys.

Needless to say that I found a lot of interesting things about why guys and girls can't be friends and I realized something that was good. See a few posts ago, "Teardrops on my Guitar post" I quote that
"In the past I had so many guy friends and if I ever started to develop feelings for them, I was jolted back to reality when I found out that they liked another girl. It has happened with every one of my guy friends, even the guys I don't like, like another girl better than me! Doesn't that suck? I'll always be some guy's "good friend" but I'll never be close enough to be considered his 'girl friend.'"

But when I think about it now, maybe that's a good thing. Not many people can pull of a guy-girl friendship but for me, most of my friendships have been with guys and that's a good thing. Right? I mean, so far I've done pretty well with mostly guy friends and even if I liked a few of them for awhile...it doesn't mean I can't still be friends with them. Who needs to be #1? First is worst, second is best! That's how the rhyme goes and for most guys, I'm the #2 girl. In other words, not the girlfriend but a close friend that just so happens to be a girl.

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